SECRET LOVE - REVEALED January 28 2019, 0 Comments
Experiencing impossible love is stressful. We're motivated to savour and maximize positive emotions, and hide negative ones. So, why do we hide love? In a revealing article What does it hide, we're informed of the many reasons we choose to keep our love secret: disinterest in your gender, taboo, forbidden, illegal, religion, incapable of returning your affection, attachment to another, geography. And we begin to fantasize.
Secret love is chaos. The rules are different. We hide. A special language is created. We find the language to express this complexity in The Arts.
Rene Magritte The Lovers Artist Unknown Stolen Kiss
Viewing the surrealistic painting by Rene Magritte 'The Lovers' can arouse complex emotions in us. We are invited to look closer for hidden meanings. The unknown creator of 'Stolen Kiss is surely conveying secret feelings of love.
Although stories about secret, hidden, forbidden love saturates literature, article: Literary love affairs: 6 novels about forbidden love, tells us about six love stories. A New York Times Book Review article asks What Are the Last Literary Taboos?
Here's a heart breaking list of songs about secretly being in love. The seemingly simple words have power because we understand, without wanting to, the fragility of having a secret love. "You Don't Know Me" sung by Ray Charles, can break your heart.
One way to overcome the agony of being unable to express your love openly is to send a card, any time, but especially on Valentine's Day. During the 1700s in England, people started sending Valentine cards anonymously, simply signed "Your Valentine." Today 150 million Valentine's Day cards are sold. That's a whole lota love! These cards and others are now available on my website. It's never too late to express your love. Valentine's Day is coming soon...
Hasta luego amigos.
GREETING CARDS WILL NEVER DIE October 03 2018, 0 Comments
"To send a letter is a good way to go somewhere without moving anything but your heart."
Greeting cards are great way to receive and send a heart-felt thought. October 6th is World Card Making Day. Why not take the time to make a card the old fashioned way with paper, scissors and glue, OR check these three websites below where you can make your own.
Society6 - This a great website to make your own cards, custom clothing and home decor.
Shopify - If you think you've got the chops for it, you can not only make your own cards, but sell them on line.
Canva - For the beginner, this site will help you choose custom backgrounds and text to produce a beautiful custom-made card.
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If you don't feel like making your own, you can order from me. Here are a few selections, and more on my website.
Hasta la próxima mis amores,
THANK YOU: Say It With a Card April 27 2018, 0 Comments
I have many people to thank, and I thank people often. Never underestimate the value of saying thank you. Showing gratitude and appreciation, giving credit when credit is due, and recognizing the kind and thoughtful actions of another, are all great reasons to give thanks. Whether it's in the workplace, within your community, family, or circle of friends, "thank you" goes a long way.
When we say thank you and show gratitude it makes a person happier and healthier, and increases our sense of connection with others. Receiving recognition increases our sense of self-worth and belonging, and reinforces the value of doing good things.
For these reasons I've created some thank you cards. They're great for sending to a colleague for a job well done, a family member you recently visited, a neighbour who helped you out, or a friend who was there when you needed them most.
There are six cards to choose from: You Helped Me, Your Kindness, From the Bottom of My Heart, Much Love, I'll Never Forget, and It Was Wonderful. You can get them all here.
As a thank you to you, my reader, and in celebration of International Jazz Day on April 30th, here is Lonnie Smith's version of I Want to Thank You.
MOTHERS - HEROES WALK AMONG US April 10 2018, 0 Comments
Mothers are not always recognized and acknowledged for their powerful position in the world. On Mother’s Day, May 13th, we have the opportunity to celebrate our mothers, in person or in memory. This is a day to formally honour the mother of the family, as well as motherhood, maternal bonds, and the influence of mothers in society.
The modern holiday of Mother's Day was first celebrated in 1908, when Anna Jarvis held a memorial for her mother at St Andrew's Methodist Church in West Virginia. It is celebrated on various days in many parts of the world, most commonly in the months of March or May.
The enormous debt we owe our mothers is acknowledged in many ways. In his essay “The Difference Between Mothers and Heroes” Lance Conrad summarizes three things all heroes have in common:
• Heroes answer the call
• Heroes have what it takes
• Heroes are willing to die for their case
History reveals that giants sometimes walk into the room holding a bag of groceries, driving a car, inspiring children to shoot for the stars, saving our lives, changing destiny. The below three links that tell amazing stories about heroic mothers.
We can honour and celebrate our mothers best on May 13th by acknowledging her special place in the world. Now would be a good time to get her a card which will reach her just in time for Mother's Day. I've created four new cards to choose from. Order one from the online catalogue of card today.
Motherhood is powerful. The continuation of the world as we know it depends on them.
A Newsletter Offering Just For You March 23 2018, 0 Comments
What a year it's been so far...lots of new cards and blog posts and activity on social media. I'm getting feedback that some people would prefer to receive news updates and special offers via email. As a reminder, this option is available. You can either add your name at the bottom of my homepage or send me an email directly. Either way you'll get a confirmation email and begin enjoying a quarterly newsletter which features new designs and interesting stories and dates for sending cards, as well as special offers.
New Friends and Identity Activate as February Begins February 03 2018, 0 Comments
What's in a name? A rose is a rose but would Oscar be as much of a grouch if he was Oscar the Friendly? We invest so much in our names, their etymology, and sometimes derive personality from it. Is Beatrix as fun to be around as Sasha? Is Bruce as smart as Norm? We sometimes make assumptions about others based on their name. This can lead to personality traits that are either shy or very open. Are there baby names more commonly used for babies born in the summer than in the winter? That's something to think about while watching the snow.
It certainly has been winter lately. It's cold. We close in. This is a good time to challenge yourself to break out and make connections, to make new friends, to consider who we are no matter what our name. Here are three special days in February prompting us to do just that.
February 11 - Make a Friend Day
Friendships matter. Whether five or eighty-five, we are social being and our survival depends upon our connection with others.
Spending time with friends improves our well being. It reinforces our place in the world and our sense of belonging and self worth. Isolation can result in poor physical and mental health. It’s not easy for everybody to make a new friend. Sometimes you just feel like a square peg in a round hole. So today's the day to find some square pegs like you.
We can start by going to new places, doing new things, and by not limiting opportunities by avoiding people who do not have the same life experiences or background as we do. When we step out of our comfort zone, we learn something new. That’s exciting. That's connecting. That’s what friends do.
February 13 - Get a Different Name Day
You'd be surprised at the people you know who have changed their names. Confucius: Kong Qiu, Catherine the Great: Sophie Frederike August von Anhalt-Zerbst in Stettin, Bob Dylan: Robert Zimmerman, to name a few.
Why are some people eager to change their names, while others would never consider it. It’s a matter of identity. People change their names for different reasons, such as religious conversion, transgender name changes, stage names for entertainers. This article gives ten reasons why people have changed their names.
Countries change their names too, for political or nationalistic reasons, or to reflect ideologies of the government in power. The history of these three name changes is fascinating: ancient Constantinople changed to Istanbul, Zaire became Democratic Republic of the Congo, Persia changed to Iran.
Fruits and vegetables also have name changes, usually for marketing reasons: alligator pears are now called avocados, the Patagonian tooth fish is now the Chilean sea bass, prunes became dried plums, and the Chinese goose berry is now called kiwi.
February 16 - Do a Grouch a Favor Day
This is the day to do something nice for someone, and for ourselves. That grouchy face you see would love and laugh and sing and dance. That usually takes two. Here are some ways to celebrate this day:
- If you see someone who is grumpy, do something nice for them. A smile can lift the heart.
- If you know of someone who is having a difficult time, take them to dinner, eat lots of ice cream with Cointreau.
- Sit and listen to them instead of forcing cheer on them, sit with them with their feelings and let them talk.
Fruits and vegetables change their names too...usually for marketing purposes:Avocado were once called alligator pears, the Patagonian tooth fish was renamed Chilean sea bass, Chinese goose berry became the kiwi, and prunes are now fashionably called dried plumbs.
Here are some funny new greeting cards ..... to celebrate those special February name days.
Until next time amigos.
January Days, Connections & Puzzles January 18 2018, 0 Comments
January can be a tough month for many people...myself included. In the North, we are challenged with bad weather, trapped inside, lack of sunshine, feeling confined and isolated. This wet and cold can impact our mental health and well being. To cope, we find ways of cheering ourselves up by connecting with others, staying warm, doing activities that make us feel happy. What better way to do this than to create special calendar days to get us out and active. Special theme days, in the second half of January, connect to the human condition: intimacy, friendship, emotions, opposites, and puzzles.
January 21 - National Hug Day
This warm day in January coaxes us to show our emotions. The mental and physical benefits of connecting with hugs are infinite. Do you know that animals love hugs, with each other and fellow humans.
January 23 - National Handwriting Day
This day encourages use to pick up a pen or pencil, a piece of paper, and a greeting card.
Writing with a pen positively affects the brain by increasing neural activity, it sharpens the brain and helps us to learn, and forces us to slow down and enjoy the moment.
There are many reasons why the art of the handwritten letter enhances the lives of the sender and the receiver, such as creating memories, making us feel good, and sparking creativity, unplugging us from the screen.
January 24 - National Compliment Day
A compliment has a powerful effect, on both the receiver and the giver. It’s a wonderful way to brighten someone’s day. A genuine compliment tells the receiver that they matter, they are unique, and that the giver is sincere. There's a scientific explanation why people perform better after receiving a compliment. We can enrich someone’s life by sending a special card with a special compliment. It'll make their day.
In his unique way, Mark Twain expressed his feelings about receiving a compliment:
January 25 - National Opposite Day
This is a day to have fun by saying and doing the opposite of what you want to say or mean to do. As comical as it might appear, this opposite activity can have a profound effect on our thinking. We are encouraged to be experimental, to break habits, to be brave. Cake for breakfast with chop sticks…that can’t be wrong!
Puzzles typically necessitate trials and errors. We might find solutions to familiar frustrating questions by considering the the opposite answer. The solution might be just outside the box, or under it. Consider the words of wisdom contained in this story.
January 27 - National Chocolate Cake Day
One day? One day only? For some of us, any day is chocolate cake day. Having a good day or a bad day: chocolate cake! Alone or in a crowd: chocolate cake. Hungry or not hungry: chocolate cake. Fork or fingers: chocolate cake. Having difficulty solving a puzzle: chocolate cake will help find the solution. There are many recipes for chocolate cake. This one sounds delicious.
January 29 - National Puzzle Day
Puzzles stimulate the brain, keeping it active. When we work on a jigsaw puzzle, we use both sides of the brain and improve memory, cognitive function and problem-solving skills. Crossword puzzles increase our vocabulary and language skills. Solving puzzles significantly assists our brains in the production of dopamine and accelerates ingenuity. Here are some more benefits of solving puzzles, however big or small.
Spending time with a friend, working on a jigsaw puzzle, is a fun way to connect, having some chocolate cake, and a hug. What a great way to get rid of the winter blahhhhhhs.
Until next time.
All Love Is Good Love January 09 2018, 0 Comments
I’ve asked myself, ‘If love is so ancient, why is it always new?’. If love makes us act silly, how can it also move mountains? If love hurts, why do we need love’s balm? And why so many sappy love songs? It’s a mystery! — and undeniable… And if we’re lucky, then smart enough, that mystery will call us…and when we answer, it can be the beginning of something magical.
But before we get into magic words, modern psychology has broken this human condition into seven types of love. Gary Chapman has also had great success in sharing his book, The Five Languages of Love. But is that how we experience it?
The kind of love that asks us to send Valentine’s cards is romantic love. It is the love of great novels. It has inspired music, dance, poetry and theatre. It is, at the same time, the ailment and the elixir. It is the cause and the cure of great heartache. There are many great verses through time’s line which capture the essence of love which transcends gender, race, religion. Here is one I love.
"Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."
Witchery sometime claims to do what wisdom cannot. Here’s a great link from Huffington Post from a few years ago which outlines the five easy ways to creating love spells.
What better way to create your own love spell this Valentine’s Day than by sending a beautiful card. There are eleven new cards for you to share. Order now to get them out on time for Valentine's day.
LITTLE BUT LARGE: Tiny Steps Toward Your Centre December 19 2017, 0 Comments
It’s the little things that count. That sweet gesture at the right time, an unexpected smile, the anonymous kindness, favourite music drifting in, a shared memory, the ease of an extra five minutes. This holiday season is a busy time, when the little things get overlooked. It’s a time to stand still, look around, take deep breath, pay attention to what’s immediately around you, listen to the sounds in the room that you’re in, and give thanks. It’s a great time to make connections. To give a little. It comes back in unexpected ways.
Here are three great books to help guide you through these excitable times:
The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle
A great step by step guide to centering yourself and being mindful of the world around you. Following these instructions will result in a more meaningful way of living and help identify your triggers for unhappiness.
Great Eastern Sun by Chögyam Trungpa
I fantastic read and lessons on how to be more present. After implementing these lessons, you will have a lot more focus, and live with greater intention in your daily life.
The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari by Robin Sharma
This fable of a person on a spiritual path is loaded with riddles and lessons. While following the adventure there are cues for unpacking your own sense of self and your place in the world.
These are great books for yourself or as a gift for someone you know who might need some guidance today. Send this along with a card to let them know you care.
Take care of yourself and see you next time.
Time is Flying December 13 2017, 0 Comments
How to stop time from flying forward? Time travel back to childhood. Begin by celebrating National Ice Cream Day on December 13th. Save some of that ice cream and add it to a cup cake on December 15th National Lemon Cupcake Day.
There's a new card on the website waiting for you.
Making Connections During the Winter Holidays December 05 2017, 0 Comments
At this time of year, special memories come calling. It's a great time to reflect on the moments when you were closer, your successes, and the challenges you've overcome. A special card with loving words is a wonderful way to reconnect with family and friends or someone you haven't seen in a while: https://valtheartistgraphics.com/. Here are two days which celebrate the value of a written card.
December 7 - Letter Writing Day
Letter writing is as old as written language. Archaeologists have discovered letters written on wood, metal and ceramic plaques, leather, and fabric.
Modern means of communications has made letter writing a less popular activity, but Letter Writing Day aims to change this. The holiday season encourages people to hand write letters and send them to their loved ones the old fashioned way. A handwritten letter conveys sincerity from the moment it arrives. Here are some tips on writing that special letter.
December 9 - Christmas Card Day
Today honours Sir Henry Cole of England, who created the first commercial Christmas card in 1843. That makes today the perfect time to get started on your own cards for the holiday season. Although technology has changed delivery methods, the Christmas card tradition remains robust today because people love to receive a special card with hand-written words from those who keep the traditional celebration of Christmas.
We all want to receive special holiday cards. Sometimes we are at a loss what to say when we send one to loved ones. Here's a little guidance on letter writing to help you to express yourself.
That makes today the perfect time to get started on your own cards for the holiday season! You can see my newest Holiday greeting cards here.
Te veo pronto,
A Message To My Readers September 20 2017, 0 Comments
Welcome to my corner of the internet. I've been designing cards for a few years and look forward to sharing regular new creations with you, whether you are someone looking for a card for a special occasion, another card designer, or someone looking to sell my cards in your shop. I hope you'll find something here for you, or someone you love and care about.
Future posts will include updates on card offerings, some behind the scenes peaks at my process and what influences me. I will share inspiring quotes and thoughtful words of great minds of poets, writers, musicians, philosophers, and artists. But there's more…
I'm going to offer you, my reader, regular tips on writing meaningful messages for celebration, condolence, and appreciation. We all love to buy and give cards, but sometimes we lack the words to say, ' I love you', 'I appreciate you', or 'I am sorry'. I will help you with that.
I always welcome reader feedback, so if you have something to share on a topic, a question, or want to suggest a future post or card, feel free to leave suggestions in the comments section or send me an email.